On the surface, Fear and Delight seem to be strange bedfellows. The phrase strange bedfellows is a line from the Tempest written by Shakespeare. In that context, it means that politics can bring people together that don’t have anything else in common. They can be very different but when they have to come together for a common goal like war, they end up in relationship. More fittingly, merriam-webster defines stange bedfellows as a phrase often used to describe an unlikely alliance of people or things. Fear and Delight appear to be an unlikely alliance of emotions.
When it comes to comparing God’s ways to man’s, hear what God says, “For as the heavens are higher than the earth, So are My ways higher than your ways, And My thoughts than your thoughts” Isaiah 55:9 It is not strange in God’s perspective for Fear and Delight to be an unlikely alliance. In a biblical sense, the phrase the Fear of the Lord does not mean afraid. Fear there means to revere, respect, hold in high regard, honor. Psalms 112 says
Blessed is the man who fears the Lord,
Who delights greatly in His commandments.
Happiness, joy and good comes to the man or woman who fears the Lord. How or why? Because of the one who reverences God and His Word obeys God’s Word. When we obey God, we are blessed. The delight is in following God’s ways as outlined in His Word. Almost always, that cuts against the grain of who we are and what we think. Again, “..My ways higher than your ways, And My thoughts than your thoughts”. Furthermore, God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble. As such, the disobedient are opposed by God especially those who profess to be a follower of Christ. We see throughout the Word of God the discipline or chastisement of God on His people. His intent is to cause us to repent and obey. He isn’t punishing us. He is trying to train us to make the best choice, obedience to His Word. That is the essence of Fear and Delight.
When God gave the Israelites the Ten Commandments, the people saw the thunder and lightning, heard the trumpet and saw the mountain in smoke As a consequence, they trembled in fear. Not reverential fear, but being afraid. To that Moses said, “Do not be afraid. God has come to test you, so that the fear of God will be with you to keep you from sinning.” God wanted them to be enraptured by His awesome power. He wanted them to see Him and revere, honor and worship Him through obedience. God wanted them to place great emphasis on having no god before Him and not succumbing to idolatry. Romans 8 says
5 For those who are according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who are according to the Spirit, the things of the Spirit. 6 For the mind set on the flesh is death, but the mind set on the Spirit is life and peace, 7 because the mind set on the flesh is hostile toward God; for it does not subject itself to the law of God, for it is not even able to do so, 8 and those who are in the flesh cannot please God.
9 However, you are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if indeed the Spirit of God dwells in you. But if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he does not belong to Him. 10 If Christ is in you, though the body is dead because of sin, yet the spirit is alive because of righteousness. 11 But if the Spirit of Him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, He who raised Christ Jesus from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through His Spirit who dwells in you.
Fear and Delightrevolves around the follower of Christ following the Holy Spirit, so God can manifest the Fruits of the Spirit in and through our lives blessing us and the people around us in the process. What brings greater delight than to know God and be used by God to reveal Himself to man? NOTHING. That is not strange. Fear and Delight is what we all truly long for. Surrender unto Jesus who desires to give us peace with God and the peace of God as we escape the eternal penalty of our sins by trusting in Him as Lord and Savior.